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The Single Most Unattractive Thing A Guy Can Do - Shreya Sachdev

Hi everyone! I hope you’re all having a nice day. For today’s blog post, I thought I would talk about the most unattractive thing a guy, I personally feel, can do. Of course, this is just my personal opinion and I’m sure that many girls would disagree with me. In fact, I even have a list of attractive and unattractive qualities I find in guys, and so many of my friends have seen that list and told me that they think my list is ridiculous and just that it doesn’t make any sense. I honestly just made that list as a joke, and I likewise don’t want anyone to take what I write in this post too seriously. Even though what I’m going to be talking about in this post is unattractive to me, it doesn’t mean that a guy doing this one particular thing would ever stop me from liking him or having feelings for him. It’s just that when guys do this one thing, I personally feel like it comes off as not masculine. I actually hate using the word “masculine” because obviously we’re in the 21st century and guys should be able to do what they want in the exact same way that girls should be able to do what they want. I really believe that gender stereotypes need to be broken for our future generations, but I still can’t deny the fact that when a guy does this one particular thing, it just really turns me off and I wish guys didn’t do this. Do you want to know what it is? Make sure to let me know what you believe is the most unattractive thing a guy can do, and without further ado let’s get started!

Okay, so I think it’s really unattractive when a guy uses emojis. Don’t ask me why, because I genuinely don’t understand it myself. All I know is that when I’m on my crush’s Instagram and I see that he’s used the fire emoji and a bunch of other “gangster” emojis, I immediately cringe and I consider not liking him anymore and moving on to another guy. Now, I know what you’re thinking: You probably think that I don’t have an issue with all emojis, but only emojis that “cool guys” use, like the purple devil emoji and the fire emoji, but no that’s not the case. I also don’t like it when guys use other emojis such as the laughing one with the tears, the smiley face, the face with the black sunglasses, the face with the tongue out, and even all the flag emojis. I think that it not only comes off as not masculine, but also somewhat immature. Guys who use emojis remind me of those seven year old girls who use the heart emoji and the smiley face emoji in every single sentence and use it so extensively. Thus, I think that when I see a guy using an emoji, it just reminds me of those girls and it makes me view the guy as childish and juvenile. I wish guys would just use “Lol” or “Hahahaha” whilst texting or commenting on photos instead of the laughing emoji because I think that it would come off as more attractive and much more mature. Luckily, I don’t have this problem since all the guys I like leave me on read.

There we go! I have told all of you what the most unattractive thing is that a guy can do. I hope all of you know that this post is entirely satire, is for laughing purposes, and that my last intention would be to tell a guy that because he uses emojis, he’s not a real man and isn’t masculine enough for a girl. Like I said above, we’re in the 21st century and we need to get rid of gender stereotypes. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with boys who use emojis and just because a guy uses them does not mean that I won’t like him or find him attractive. After all, in the end it all boils down to personality and the way a guy can make a girl feel. Every single guy I’ve ever been attracted to uses emojis when captioning their Instagram and Facebook photos, and that goes to show you that I really meant it when I said that whether a guy uses emojis is not a major factor when it comes to deciding who I like and don’t like. The fact that it comes off as unattractive to me is a problem that I myself have and need to understand. Anyways, if any of you have any weird things that you find unattractive or attractive in guys then be sure to let me know! I would love to feel as if I’m not alone when it comes to this discussion. That’s it for today’s blog post and I will speak to you guys very soon in my next one.

Shreya Sachdev